Something I have been thinking about for a very long time, wanted but didn't want just something to have one.
Then decided I wanted my kids name which comes along that I am a stepmother and not wanting to hurt any ones feelings came along with the decision to include my stepdaughters name or not. For this was my decision which I put her feelings first for I made it her decision if it was to be placed or not.
It was her decision that did not put her name, but wanted to be included and wanted stars to be added for her.
With that I have a tattoo with my kids names on my shoulder and stars surrounding it which is for my stepdaughter.